Chapter 5 Financial Wisdom for the Bivocational Family

The Money Question Bivocational ministry often means ministry without adequate compensation — or ministry income that supplements a primary job rather than replacing it. Either way, the financial reality of bivocational households tends to be complex and sometimes stressful. Financial stress is one of the most consistent contributors to marital strain and family dysfunction. It does not require dramatic crisis — the chronic low-grade stress of inadequate margin, unexpected expenses, and uncertain income does sufficient damage on its own. The bivocational family benefits enormously from two practices: a clear and honest budget that reflects actual income and actual expenses, and an ongoing honest conversation with the spouse about the financial realities of the family's life. Financial secrets between spouses are one of the fastest ways to damage marital trust. "Keep your life free from love of money, and be content with what you have, for he has said, "I will never leave you nor forsake you."" — Hebrews 13:5 Financial health in the bivocational family is a form of faithfulness. Know your numbers. Be honest with your spouse. Build margin wherever you can.